Merhaba sevgili ailem….<\/p>\n
Ailem derken pop\u00fclist bir yakla\u015f\u0131m derdinde de\u011filim. Sebebi basit. Beni okulumuzu yat\u0131l\u0131 okuyanlar daha iyi anlayacaklard\u0131r. 11. ya\u015f\u0131nda;\u00a0 dev \u00e7am a\u011fa\u00e7l\u0131 , \u00e7ok uzun yollar\u0131 a\u015farak geldik okula ailelerimizle. B\u0131rakt\u0131lar bizi gittiler. Ak\u015fam kimimiz ailemizin yan\u0131na d\u00f6nd\u00fck. Kimimiz ise hafta sonuna kadar birlikte yatt\u0131, kalkt\u0131, \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131,\u00a0 buz gibi suda du\u015f yapt\u0131, \u00fc\u015f\u00fcd\u00fc ,terledi, a\u00e7 kald\u0131, yeme\u011fini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc, k\u0131yafetini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc vs vs \u2026. Kimimiz ise belki ayda bir gidebildi evine… 18 ya\u015f\u0131na kadar s\u00fcrd\u00fc bu ya\u015fam. Hayattaki bir\u00e7ok radikal ilkleri beraber ya\u015fad\u0131k. Cinsiyetlerin ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve birlikte mutlulu\u011funu tatt\u0131k.\u00a0 \u0130lk yalan, ilk a\u015fk, ilk okuldan ka\u00e7\u0131p sinema keyfi, ilk tiyatro, ilk kumar, ilk sigara, ilk sarho\u015fluk, ilk hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ve bir \u00e7ok iyi k\u00f6t\u00fc ama sonunda iyili\u011fe g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek ilkler… \u0130nsan o\u011flunun ilk \u00f6\u011frenimi ilk 3-5 senesinde olurken, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ve karakteri bu ya\u015flarda olu\u015ftu\u011funa g\u00f6re dostlar\u0131n zamanla tabi ki yeni ailen oluyor.<\/p>\n
18 ya\u015f\u0131na gelince lokasyonlar\u0131m\u0131z ayr\u0131ld\u0131. Ankara, \u0130zmir, \u0130stanbul, yurd\u0131\u015f\u0131 da\u011f\u0131ld\u0131k. Ayn\u0131 \u015fehir ve okuldakiler tekrar bulu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131lar, doyurmad\u0131 yeni arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z bizi… Lisans e\u011fitimlerimiz bitti, i\u015f hayat\u0131 ba\u015flad\u0131, o g\u00fczel sorumsuz y\u0131llar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan sorumluklar ba\u015flad\u0131. Y\u00fcksek lisans, askerlik , i\u015f ….Ha bu s\u00fcrede ailemizi unuttuk mu, \u00e7ok birlikte olamasak da hiii\u00e7 unutmad\u0131k ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme denemeleri ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131…<\/p>\n
97 y\u0131l\u0131nda yahoogroups da bir mail grubu olu\u015fturduk, ilk kat\u0131lan ada\u015f\u0131m Mehmet Mete Mutlu oldu. Bu adam\u0131n ismini biliyor, y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rl\u0131yor ama hi\u00e7 bir \u015fekilde tan\u0131m\u0131yordum. Yaz\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k, yayd\u0131k….Yay\u0131ld\u0131k…B\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fmeye ba\u015flad\u0131k. Mezuniyetimizin 10.y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131 7-8 ki\u015fi kutlad\u0131k. Derken toplum bask\u0131s\u0131 ile aile ol aile ol dediler, kimimiz\u00a0 evlendik zaman iyice azald\u0131, bekar kalanlar biraz daha g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi art\u0131rabildi, 15. y\u0131l\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kutlad\u0131k 50-60 ki\u015fi Ku\u015fadas\u0131nda kendi orkestram\u0131zla…. Bu da ilklerimizden birisiydi ve ailemizi \u00f6zledi\u011fimizi anlad\u0131k…. Derken \u00e7o\u011fumuz evlendik, \u00e7ocuk \u00e7ocuk dediler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z oldu, \u00fcredik…. Ama kay\u0131plar ba\u015flad\u0131, ailemizde eksilmeler P\u0131nar\u0131m\u0131z, H\u00fcrkan\u0131m\u0131z\u2026.. Silkinip kendimize geldik ve aile toplant\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131za kat\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z artmaya ba\u015flad\u0131…. Art\u0131k hayat\u0131n zorluklar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kahkaha atmak i\u00e7in ka\u00e7\u0131p ailemizle bulu\u015fmak i\u00e7in kendimizi zorlad\u0131k.<\/p>\n
Birbirimize iyi geldik……<\/p>\n
35lik partisi, \u0130zmir \u0130stanbul bulu\u015fmalar\u0131, 20.y\u0131l, 25.y\u0131l derken 167 ki\u015fi bulu\u015ftuk \u00c7e\u015fmede. Sanki birbirimize orada s\u00f6z verdik, daha s\u0131k\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131z, daha s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fece\u011fiz, kay\u0131plar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015fataca\u011f\u0131z….<\/p>\n
Teknoloji geli\u015fmi\u015fti, mesleklerinde uzman arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla ileti\u015fimimiz bir whatsap mesaj\u0131 kadar yak\u0131nd\u0131, yeni gruplar kuruldu. Meyhaneye de gittik, spor da yapt\u0131k. BALEV’de ilkleri ba\u015fard\u0131k, sosyal sorumluluk projelerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, karde\u015flerimizde aile olsun diye destek olduk….<\/p>\n
Aile bulu\u015ftu…. Mutluluk kahkaha artt\u0131….<\/p>\n
Ben mi? Ailemden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m destekle; Burcuyla, Devrimle, Burakla, Banuyla, P\u0131narla, Umutla, Yarg\u0131yla, Eserle….. Ailenin t\u00fcm bireyleriyle \u00e7ok yorulduk ama \u00e7ooook MUTLUYUM, A\u0130LEMLEY\u0130M….<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi geldi bunlar\u0131n hepsini bir araya getirmeye ya\u015fatmaya… Ailenin teknoloji uzman\u0131, zehir fikirli \u00fcyesi BAL’90’\u0131 register etti, yetmedi, bot yazd\u0131 \ud83d\ude42 yetmedi \u015fimdi toplamaya karar verdi. Internet sitemizi kurdu…. Bana da yazmak d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc…. Sevgili dostum, karde\u015fim YARGI DE\u011eER \u00c7A\u011eLAR ellerine sa\u011fl\u0131k karde\u015fim. Hepimize bir ESER b\u0131rakt\u0131n….<\/p>\n
Biz BAL’90 da ya\u015fatmak d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Birlikte ya\u015fatal\u0131m an\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, g\u00fczel g\u00fcnlerimizi, geri kalan hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 geride kalan karde\u015flerimiz i\u00e7in…..<\/p>\n
Mete Deniz BEKTUR’90<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Merhaba sevgili ailem…. Ailem derken pop\u00fclist bir yakla\u015f\u0131m derdinde de\u011filim. Sebebi basit. Beni okulumuzu yat\u0131l\u0131 okuyanlar daha iyi anlayacaklard\u0131r. 11. ya\u015f\u0131nda;\u00a0 dev \u00e7am a\u011fa\u00e7l\u0131 , \u00e7ok uzun yollar\u0131 a\u015farak geldik okula ailelerimizle. B\u0131rakt\u0131lar bizi gittiler. Ak\u015fam kimimiz ailemizin yan\u0131na d\u00f6nd\u00fck. Kimimiz ise hafta sonuna kadar birlikte yatt\u0131, kalkt\u0131, \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131,\u00a0 buz gibi suda du\u015f yapt\u0131, \u00fc\u015f\u00fcd\u00fc … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":253,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/252"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=252"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/252\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":343,"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/252\/revisions\/343"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/253"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=252"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=252"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bal90.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}